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Fatherhood, Love and Healing. by Henry Amador-Batten

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photo: AwakeningTimes I can't remember when it happened, when I stop expecting to see my father.  I remember far away moments, looking out into an audience or across a room or at either side of friends and family members only to see a vacant seat. I remember distant conversations with my mom finding excuse after excuse for him. He tried honey,  he would have,  he really wanted to be here,  he’ll make it up to you,  he must have gotten tied up,  you know how busy daddy is and on and on.  It’s funny how much we believe those little white lies, how much we need to believe them, right?  So much so that each one comforts you long enough until the next one is required by our little forming brains and hearts.  Long enough to stretch out time and space.  Long enough that you no longer really believe them but still want to hear them and then long enough tha...

To Be a Dad. A Lesson in Fatherhood by Toyota, Yes I Said Toyota.

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By Henry Amador Toyota launched a beautiful new campaigne called "The Bold New Camry."' Okay before go any further forget what I just said,  forget that this video is somehow tied into to buying a car,  forget that it was created to make a buck.  Forget all of that and sit back and watch this wonderful testament to fatherhood. I am one of those dads that when asked "how do you know you can be a good dad considering your childhood?" answers the same way, with the same tear rolling down my cheek, "I'm trying." When each of these kids are asked how they know their dads love them not a one of them answers based on the things they have, they all answer based on the words they hear, the kisses their fathers give them, the amount of love they are shown and the fact that these dads are present in their childrens lives. Yeah, this video really caught me by surprise, no matter what we came from we all still have the choice and the ability to do...